I long disliked Hollywood blockbusters. So when I fell in love for The Gladiator and its main character Maximus, I felt it necessary to subject my strange reactions to logic.
The movie itself is beautiful. The reconstruction of Rome, the provinces, its transportation, religion and war fares brought people back in time. It tells a great and convincing story (though there are some less well-thought details, such as how could Cecilia reasonably tell her 7-year old son about her secret plans; and why did the guards not offer Commodus a sword at the final fight).

What most interests me is the reason of my falling in love for the hero, Maximus. I come up with a list of virtues that pull me into his charms: he is the best at fighting, he is honorable, he is handsome, he is widely respected and loved, – in descending order in terms of their importance. The fact that I value his fighting ability strikes me as revealing. Do women still feel an innate need to be protected in twenty-first century when sword fighting is no longer a much valued skill? Are the genes that favor strong men still in our blood, or do women still feel weak subconsciously?
As I continue my reasoning at work today, I realized that if there is a men who is as good as Maximus in sword fighting today, say a professional GongFu master, women will probably not jump at him today. In our time, a strong man means different things because the threats are different. The battles are not fought against tigers in the Colosseum, but against job loss, insecurity, or maybe loneliness. Women today are still seeking protection from men, but less so physically, more so mentally or even financially. This form of protection is certainly more mundane and far less glorious than what appears in the Gladiator.
Why am I attracted to Maximus' honorable conduct then? Even though I have a vague sense of morality? What exactly is honor? As demonstrated by Maximus in the film, they would be holding on to one's word, devotion, true heart, courage and purity. Why are these qualities attractive? Maybe it is valuable because the demand for them is so high but the supply so low? But this could not be, because why aren't people attracted to the other extreme in which the same supply/demand relation exist also?

A way of explaining this may be to compare the two extreme qualities. The opposite of Maximus' virtues would be breaching promises, volatile emotions, insincerity, cowardice and flaws. In the ancient world, people have already identified Maximus' qualities as virtues. And the ancient world was one in which people live much closer to nature. Philosophers debated the questions of nature, and the relationships between humans and nature. Looking at our two lists, it is obvious that the "evil" lists are everywhere to be seen in nature. Those qualities are what nature offers humans: unpredictable, cruel and mediocre. The Maximus' list, however, is what differentiates humans from nature.
But why do a modern day person honor the same virtues? I see most of those qualities as providing safety, stability and predictability. Even though long ago people have identified change as a law of nature, we are innately afraid of change. Everybody may have wished at some moment in life that may time be frozen. Everybody probably has wished to predict the future. Suppose there is a mirror in which everyone can see his or her future, who could resist the temptation to look into it?

The third attraction of Maximus is his appearance: his eyes and his beard. Yes, who could escape? Lastly, his charm lies with his leadership and his power. Alan Greenspan's greatest legacy may be his famous conclusion that power is the best aphrodisiac.
But this whole reasoning exercise is unsatisfactory because these qualities are not separate and are inseparable. Like Warren Buffett said, "when you marry a girl, is it her eyes? Or her lips? It's the combination of everything."
So my attraction to Maximus is perhaps unexplainable. He is a fictional character, he is the ideal man who people have dreamed or fantasized over many centuries. But one thing is for sure, he does not exist beyond that little television screen in our living room.